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Speaking: Use Your Words
I’m so blessed with the gift of speech. With every gift you have a responsibility to do right. Or just to do something. I grew up children are seen and not heard. If a child is heard then it is something by default like A song… sing this or sing that. Or a poem etc. you get the point. If a child says something the parent didn’t like the parent says “what did you say?” That was code for you better not ever say that again and if you did you get a whooping. These instances created an adult with communication problems, deep onset depression, and all around problems. I vowed to break those generations of broken communication curses with my children. I taught them that you should be cautious of other people feelings, but your feelings are important as well. When my babies were small I thought them to show me where it hurt. Tell me what you are feeling because it’s important to me.
As an adult it seems as though I should have had learned all my life lessons and applied them accordingly. It’s still hard. Speaking to a friend, I understand so much about myself now. It hurts to not be able to communicate like I want to but I am definitely working on it. Even with this blog, I’m doing so much more than before. Lol I can have a conversation in my head and start talking mid my convo and expect other people to catch up or know where I’m at or even going in it. Lol. Honestly it triggers a deep sadness, I am thankful to have steps to help me work through it.
If you know someone who is going through something right now and you are strong enough mentally and physically then be there for them or try to help them get help. Each and everyone who reads this today; I want you to know you are appreciated. I thank you for taking the time out of your day to take In my words. I hope it touches your spirit and allow you to be there for someone else. Please share my story. You never know who this may help. Be Blessed Everyone
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Writers Unblock
I am very sure that all creators get some form of block every now and again. As an inspiring writer I am coming out of one. Yasssss Queens and Kings topic of discussion will be coming out of a creative block
I ask my favorite creator what inspire him to create his masterpieces, and the one thing that stuck with me was to not force it. Just allow it to happen. I decided to take a break from social media and play a game on my phone when it hit me. I decided to write this post. Again, just allow it to happen. I will be giving 9 ways to come out of a creative block. Hopefully this post will help you to create a memorable Easter.
- Give your self a break and take a few deep breaths.
- Do something different.
- Make sure your creative space is a comfortable one.
- Play a game that elevate your mind (Brainy Games).
- Exercise. This helps your mind and body you should enjoy this one.
- Don’t Give up!!!
- Either take a break from social media or get on.
- Ask for help or listen to music.
- Meditate…
- Bonus: *** Just let it happen***
Tea Tree Oil: The Healthy Choice
I list a range of things Tea Tree could heal on/in your body, but there are a few more things you could do with it.
*Some uses may be repeated.
- Hand Sanitizer
- Insect Repellent
- Natural Deodorant
- Antiseptic for minor cuts and scrapes
- Boost Wound healing
- Fight Acne
- Get rid of nail fungus
- chemical-free mouthwash
- All purpose cleaner
CREDIT: 14 Everyday uses for Tea Tree Oil, By Franziska Spritzler,RD,CDE
CREDIT: Therapeutic Essential Oil Guide
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Grandma Mag
Loss is something everyone has to go through. Everyone has or will experience this, but how you handle each situation will in some way shape your future. Sometimes I think back at a time when I lost my Grandmother. Speaking to my daughter about this I realized I have not gotten over it. I am still holding on but I am doing it in a way that it does not bother my everyday live. Yeah, I am maintaining. Recently, as in this week, my other grandmother is reaching the end of her journey. I feel like she has had a full life. With 7 kids Lord knows how many grands and great grands and so on to carry on her legacy, I for one plan to do so with honor. She has introduced me to Jesus, soul food and unconditional Love. What more could a country girl like me ask for. I said my “Thank yous” my “I Love yous” My “Im sorrys for everything I’ve done” just to get it all out and feel her “Its okay”. To know this it is easier to let her be with Jesus. But my loss is The Lords gain. And we will be okay.
#God’sPlan
Have you honestly wondered what was God’s Plan for You?
I came across this song by Drake. It’s hot, it has a good beat and and a fire catch phrase:
“She said do you love me? I said only partly, I only love my bed and my mom I’m sorry “
-Drake God’s Plan
One may ask soo what is God’s plan for me? I’m sorry but that’s something you and The Father have to figure out together but one thing is for certain, if you ask God will answer in his time. You will have to spend time in the bible and prayer. Fasting and waiting for your big revil it will be so worth it. Drake opened up something to ponder… Lol
Decision Making Made Easy
So you are confuse in which way you want to go with an important decision. Both options seem very tempting or even promising. My number one go-to in decision making is prayer. In all of the times you have been in church, you know all things good and perfect comes from the Lord. Lets break down Good. Know that if its good you know it has positive intentions not negative. If you look at Perfect, it means complete and nothing else could be done to this. While you are awaiting an answer meditate for a sign that is undeniable. You will be sure of a positive sign from God because it will come in three’s from completely different sources or people who know nothing about your situation.
If you have a life problem you can always speak to a trusted person or elder. You also have me.
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Local Resturant making a lot of noise!!!
Sidewall Pizza in Clemson, SC has hands down, delivered the new hot spot. This place comes in at number one on my list of pizza spots in that particular area. For a long time Papa John’s had my heart with their beautiful sauce and toppings under the cheese made for great taste. My mom received a coupon buy one and get the second free dine in only. So it’s Friday and I wanted to Check it out. They are only open from 5pm to close and I was so pleased! Their customer service was exquisite. The interior had an modern industrialized feeling. They had a choice beer tap menu located right on the wall. They had a selection of wine and a selection of 3 sauces for certain pizzas. My family’s first bite was the same across the board.
The best pizza hands down we have ever had.
-The Speed kids
My Upgrade
I have always been a spiritual person but recently as in the last few years I have been connecting on a higher level. Understanding self, learning, and truly loving me on a cellular level. I know that not everyone can comprehend all of this because the operate in the physical. That is okay, but I have knowledge of the unseen relm (the spiritual relm) as well. Every persons’ maturity level in my opinion depends on the ability to forgive. Forgiving others can be hard but forgiving yourself and telling yourself the full truth can be harder. Again in my own opinion when you are able to speak to yourself about your hangups, desires, fears, and dreams without reserve you have reached your personal upgrade.
Live in Peace and Love
Challenge until Success
I recently started a “Do it scared challenge” with Bougie Black Blogger, CicelyRenee. I think that this will be a perfect platform to track my successes or shortcomings in my business endeavors. My first bit of business is to write out my expectations for this new adventure or should I say chapter of my life literally. Secondly I have to track my
Social Media Growth:
Number of Videos and Posts I make:
Number of People I sign up:
My Personal Growth:
Trust me readers this should be good and definitely a to be continued…
Nothing Missing!!!!!
I believe I was at a Clemson game. Minding my own business with my kids. My youngest daughter noticed a little girl with long pigtails looking in our direction. So I believe my daughter spoke first “Hi!” with a big smile. The little girl says “Hey.” Then, I am assuming, her mom and dad turn to smile and say “Hey”. I smile my big full smile and speak too “Hello!” The little girl looked with big wide eyes and two missing front teeth and says “Mommy…Daddy… she was missing a tooth too!” I, at this point, am rolling! (laughing very hard). One because she obviously didn’t know what a gap was and two because I was a bit embarrassed.
Later on, I started thinking I love me, my gap is who I am. When people say something about “Kiki”, that’s my nickname, I always add the one with the gap. If there is something that stands out about you, embrace it love it, it’s how God created you. In the Bible Genisis 1:27 it says we are made in his image. God is perfect, so you know we have to be made great. I have a gap, I am not missing anything. I am a full and perfect Queen and I love me!
Ulonda Speed 