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Grandma Mag

Loss is something everyone has to go through. Everyone has or will experience this, but how you handle each situation will in some way shape your future. Sometimes I think back at a time when I lost my Grandmother. Speaking to my daughter about this I realized I have not gotten over it. I am still holding on but I am doing it in a way that it does not bother my everyday live. Yeah, I am maintaining. Recently, as in this week, my other grandmother is reaching the end of her journey. I feel like she has had a full life. With 7 kids Lord knows how many grands and great grands and so on to carry on her legacy, I for one plan to do so with honor. She has introduced me to Jesus, soul food and unconditional Love. What more could a country girl like me ask for. I said my “Thank yous” my “I Love yous” My “Im sorrys for everything I’ve done” just to get it all out and feel her “Its okay”. To know this it is easier to let her be with Jesus. But my loss is The Lords gain. And we will be okay.


Have you honestly wondered what was God’s Plan for You?

I came across this song by Drake. It’s hot, it has a good beat and and a fire catch phrase:

“She said do you love me? I said only partly, I only love my bed and my mom I’m sorry “

-Drake God’s Plan

One may ask soo what is God’s plan for me? I’m sorry but that’s something you and The Father have to figure out together but one thing is for certain, if you ask God will answer in his time. You will have to spend time in the bible and prayer. Fasting and waiting for your big revil it will be so worth it. Drake opened up something to ponder… Lol

Decision Making Made Easy

So you are confuse in which way you want to go with an important decision. Both options seem very tempting or even promising. My number one go-to in decision making is prayer. In all of the times you have been in church, you know all things good and perfect comes from the Lord. Lets break down Good. Know that if its good you know it has positive intentions not negative. If you look at Perfect, it means complete and nothing else could be done to this. While you are awaiting an answer meditate for a sign that is undeniable. You will be sure of a positive sign from God because it will come in three’s from completely different sources or people who know nothing about your situation.

If you have a life problem you can always speak to a trusted person or elder. You also have me.

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With love,

From me

Local Resturant making a lot of noise!!!

Sidewall Pizza in Clemson, SC has hands down, delivered the new hot spot. This place comes in at number one on my list of pizza spots in that particular area. For a long time Papa John’s had my heart with their beautiful sauce and toppings under the cheese made for great taste. My mom received a coupon buy one and get the second free dine in only. So it’s Friday and I wanted to Check it out. They are only open from 5pm to close and I was so pleased! Their customer service was exquisite. The interior had an modern industrialized feeling. They had a choice beer tap menu located right on the wall. They had a selection of wine and a selection of 3 sauces for certain pizzas. My family’s first bite was the same across the board.

The best pizza hands down we have ever had.

-The Speed kids

My Upgrade

I have always been a spiritual person but recently as in the last few years I have been connecting on a higher level. Understanding self, learning, and truly loving me on a cellular level. I know that not everyone can comprehend all of this because the operate in the physical. That is okay, but I have knowledge of the unseen relm (the spiritual relm) as well. Every persons’ maturity level in my opinion depends on the ability to forgive. Forgiving others can be hard but forgiving yourself and telling yourself the full truth can be harder. Again in my own opinion when you are able to speak to yourself about your hangups, desires, fears, and dreams without reserve you have reached your personal upgrade.

Live in Peace and Love

Challenge until Success

       I recently started  a “Do it scared challenge” with Bougie Black Blogger,  CicelyRenee. I think that this will be a perfect platform to track my successes or shortcomings in my business endeavors. My first bit of business is to write out my expectations for this new adventure or should I say chapter of my life literally. Secondly I have to track my

Social Media Growth:

Number of Videos and Posts I make:

Number of People I sign up:

My Personal Growth:

Trust me readers this should be good and definitely a to be continued…

Nothing Missing!!!!!

I believe I was at a Clemson game. Minding my own business with my kids. My youngest daughter noticed a little girl with long pigtails looking in our direction. So I believe my daughter spoke first “Hi!” with a big smile. The little girl says “Hey.” Then, I am assuming, her mom and dad turn to smile and say “Hey”. I smile my big full smile and speak too “Hello!” The little girl looked with big wide eyes and two missing front teeth and says “Mommy…Daddy… she was missing a tooth too!” I, at this point, am rolling! (laughing very hard). One because she obviously didn’t know what a gap was and two because I was a bit embarrassed.

Later on, I started thinking I love me, my gap is who I am. When people say something about “Kiki”, that’s my nickname, I always add the one with the gap. If there is something that stands out about you, embrace it love it, it’s how God created you. In the Bible Genisis 1:27 it says we are made in his image. God is perfect, so you know we have to be made great. I have a gap, I am not missing anything. I am a full and perfect Queen and I love me!

The Purge

So with it being the middle of summer, I felt purging some household items should go into effect! Immediately.

With Friday being my wind-down day, I did everything minimum. Saturday began very renew and fresh. My bedroom was actually completed two weekends prior. My living room the week after and my biggest project, my kitchen was this weekend. After watching hours of “Clutterbug”, “At Home With Nikki”, and “A Bowl Full Of Lemons” all Youtubers; I came up with my own rendition of each. It was a bit of a struggle because I am very visual. I had to stop and replay several sections of each video over and over again. I truly feel it all came together nicely. Although there are several adjustments I will make when money allows. All of the Still-in-good-condition items went straight to the Goodwill. I found a second mixer for cakes, never been opened. There were several other cooking gadgets I plan to break out soon and trust me I can not wait.

Some More Things I Want My Kids to Know

To My Babies:

I want to leave you all a very important message. Pay your Tithes Always!!! I will explain why right now. I think I will do so in list form… It just feels right.

  • It is not for God, it is a test for you. God doesn’t need your money. The Lord has entrusted it to you. Now he wants to know if you trust him to take care of you.
  • Some people question if you should Tithe a tenth of your Net or Gross. Net- The amount you bring home. Gross- The amount you actually make before anyone takes anything out. This is a personal decision, left completely up to you. How much do you trust God? My personal thoughts on this are I want to give God my best; 10% of my Gross.
  • How to find 10% of your earnings:
    1. Find the Net or Gross Amount on your check stub.
    2. Find the decimal point that separates the Cents from Dollars.
    3. Move that placement over to the Left once.
  • When or where you can pay your Tithes is completely up to your pay schedule. Ex. If you get paid weekly, you can pay weekly. Bi-weekly or monthly. Just pay so accordingly.
  • * Okay everything I said up until now has been things I was taught or learned from experience. This last thing is more the business side of things. If something were to happen, and I pass. Because I joined the church, I paid my Tithes, I am able to be buried at my plot and not have to pay the church to be buried. This is one less bill for my loved ones ( you all). That is why the family says to become a member somewhere. There are more technical things behind the scenes. I just summed it up.

*Mommy loves you but God loves you more.*

The Things I Want My Kids To Know

Today’s Things I want my kids to know is the most important subject of all, God. If my children don’t listen to anything else or read any more of my Blogs I pray that they see this one. Faith is what will make you put one foot in front of the other when you want to give up;  Faith in God is where your strength comes from.

Yesterday started out pretty good. Actually, it started in the months before which were very hard for me. We suffered through a big loss. It devastated the whole family and I held on to it when I thought I had let it go. Up until May 22 ( yesterday) I had an break through where I was tired of being angry. It effected everyone around me, especially in the household. When I opened my eyes to what was happening I chose to change my attitude. I chose to have Faith in God again when I did not know it was withered.

I began my day as normal getting myself ready, fixed my coffee, then woke you kids. I got to work on time and there were no problems there. I actually found out that we may receive overtime after the holidays, great! Then the fun part. On my way home my car immediately went hot and started smoking! Ugh, I thought. I wanted to get mad and upset but because I have to turn a new leaf and have Faith I took that hit. Let me add I just took care of the bills and only had a few dollars to my name to last us the next two weeks. I refuse to Allow this test to deter me from something better for us so, Again, I chose to remain with Faith things will get better.

I want you all to know that things are not always going to go perfect all the days of your life. You will have amazing days and very awful days but keep faith that things are happening for a reason. This is just a test and to pass you have to be level headed. Be good to people even when they do you wrong. There is a thing as Karma, what goes around comes around. Make sure that what you send out is good so your come around is better.

Mommy loves you